While many people do their best to attract a partner, other people are incredibly successful at this without seemingly putting too much effort into it. What distinguishes these people in their tactics? How do they do it? And above all: how can they also attract a specific person?
In this article, I’ll explain how you can attract your soul mate by applying the Law of Attraction and attracting a specific person you have set your mind on.
Attracting a specific person with the Law of Attraction
From the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks but so does reality. Because you can still hope that a specific person will manifest as a partner, you will have to focus on yourself for the Law of Attraction to work for you. If there is someone in your life that you are extremely fond of, then it is very likely that you think about this person most of the time.
If you have the illusion that the Law of Attraction will make a specific person love you, then you are wrong. The Law of Attraction is called so for a reason; it’s all about attraction, and it has everything to do with your own emotions, your thoughts, your beliefs, and your unique resonance.
Attract a specific love partner with these 7 steps
In order for the Law of Attraction to work for you, that your strategy meets the following requirements:
1. Be convinced of yourself and your appeal
Self-confidence is very important, and confidence in yourself has a lot to do with beliefs. Deeply held beliefs can sometimes throw a spanner in the works. A positive self-image not only makes yourself more attractive to other people and that one specific person, but you also gain more self-confidence.
Don’t you have such a very positive self-image yet? Then imbue yourself with positive affirmations. When you are standing in front of the mirror, say to yourself, “I am extremely attractive to X.” And look yourself in the eye and convince yourself. You do that ten to twenty times a day. It’s about positively brainwashing yourself because that way, your beliefs can change positively. This way, you are creating new neurological pathways in the brain to prepare yourself for being your future self.
Your self-confidence is reflected in your appearance and attitude. Do the things that make you feel better. Take care of yourself, adopt a position of self-confidence (so stand solid on both legs, shoulders slightly back and let them hang relaxed). Train your breathing because confident people have relaxed breathing.
Are you insecure? Then try the NLP technique of modeling. Look up YouTube videos of people with a lot of confidence. Observe how they move, how they talk, and especially how they think. Watch videos from The Rock Johnson, Leonardo DiCaprio, and other movie stars to see how they behave with their blazing confidence.
2. Have positive beliefs about love
Some people bathe in self-pity. They are so pathetic as single. They will never be able to find a soul mate. That’s right because, with such an attitude, you are not going to fix it.
Make sure you work on yourself with a positive approach, especially your beliefs about love. You can attract that specific person. You are also the one where love goes without a hitch. When you approach the world with a positive attitude, a world will open up for you.
You are at the helm of your love life. So from now on, you are the one who determines what will happen in your life. So don’t let yourself be fooled by self-limiting beliefs. You are going to manifest that one specific person for a relationship.
3. Fear is a bad counselor
Fear is killing not just in a relationship but in general. Some people do everything they can to avoid confrontation. When you think about it, that is exactly why they are now where they are in life. Without taking risks, no one has ever become rich or successful, not even in love.
In order for a relationship to be successful, it is important to surrender yourself to what is happening. Of course, that does not mean that you lose if you surrender, but you have to dare to take the plunge.
There is a risk that love will hurt you in the future. When this fear takes hold of you beforehand, remind yourself that true love is destined for resilient people who are willing to leap of faith. Work to make peace with the risks of love.
There is a risk that love will hurt you in the future. When this fear takes hold of you beforehand, remind yourself that true love is destined for resilient people who are willing to leap of faith. Work to make peace with the risks of love and open yourself completely to receiving love from this specific person.
4. Live from the perspective of positivity and fun
In line with number 1, Self-confidence, life is based on pleasure. Studies show that consistently laughing, smiling, and having fun have a tremendous attraction to other people, not just that particular person. You stand out with your enchanting smile. You radiate when you talk about your hobbies and interests. These are the factors you can easily score and put the Law of Attraction to work for you.
Who wouldn’t want to be in the company of someone positive, has a confident and cheerful appearance, and looks well-groomed? Make it your mission to go through life with a smile. Even if you have an unpleasant feeling on your feet, even a fake smile can quickly make you feel better, placebo yourself! A happy person is better able to attract the right people into his / her life.
5. Think about the other in a positive way
You don’t attract a specific person by having negative thoughts about that person. So spend time positively framing your future partner. What are the most positive qualities of this person? Keep focusing on these traits. You may be surprised how powerfully this positive approach can work for you, especially in combination with point 6 from this checklist.
6. The great feeling
You attract a specific person by already feeling how it feels when you are with your future partner. This and number 7 are the all-important parts to make the Law of Attraction work for you and attract a specific person.
According to Dr. Joe Dispenza, it is important to evoke this feeling for yourself over and over again, day in, day out. This process is called mental rehearsal. With this, you create the neurological hardware in your brain for that feeling, reinforcing the effect of the Law of Attraction since emotions are such a great influence.
7. Let go
Letting go is the trick! Although it sounds very contradictory to living in the desired situation day in, day out, it is important to “let the energy flow”. With the previous steps, you have indicated to the universe what you want. Now it is the universe’s turn to realize that for you.
Just as a dog cannot run after its ball when you hold it, it is also important to let go of your wish now. You may continue to feel good about yourself, work on your self-confidence and move on with your life. Your positive emotions now play an important role because they will give you a relationship with that specific person.
So let it go, and when you least expect it, your prospective partner is suddenly there.
Manifesting a relationship: my own experience
After a marriage and a divorce, I made up my mind not to start a relationship anymore, period. I had enough of it. No more bullshit, all the time for myself, and work on my mission.
After a while, it secretly wanted a partner again. It’s good to have someone around who appreciates me and who loves you for who you are, was my reasoning.
Every night when I crawled into bed alone, I imagined what it would be like to have that experience. I resolved that if someone came my way, I would be open to it. If not, I’d be fine! I would still have my hobby of inspiring people. This was the moment of letting go!
It took a few months. I had already forgotten that I was open to a relationship. But still, I was happy every day, went to work with a positive spirit, and did everything with great pleasure.
And all of a sudden, she was there through a Facebook group. I manifested a girlfriend. We talked for hours, days, weeks, and we have so much fun daily. We have been together ever since.